Archive for January, 2010

Benefit or perk…words matter

Wednesday, January 27th, 2010

Yesterday I spent some time with two different groups of people discussing words.  Yes, words.  Because they matter.  They have definitions and they also have social/pop culture connotations and they have very different meaning to different people.

The first discussion was around “work-life balance”…I’ve been debating the wording on this for a long time.  Nothing was decided yesterday except we all didn’t like the word balance…but it is still the most popular way to describe the conflict many people face daily.  Other words we threw around included:

  • flexibility (doesn’t resonate)
  • integration (sounds very businessy…and sort of nerdy)
  • fit (we’re getting there…but it does remind me I need to exercise more…which gets me stressed about my work/life again).

We also talked about not really liking “work/life” since after all it’s all life and most of us really like our work and love that it’s part of our lives.

So we got nowhere…but we’re still talking.

Then I went to a different event where we discussed the new trendy word to describe workers:  talent.  The person I was speaking with noted how he hated that word.  I asked what word he would use and he responded with people.  Which was nice to hear.  Because he’s a recruiter and often they use words like human resources, personnel, talent, or resources which I think tend to de-humanize the recruiting process.  People is what his job is about and he knows that.  That’s nice.

Why am I thinking about and talking about words so much? Because recently I went to Fortune’s Best Companies to Work For list and was checking it out.  And I noticed something glaring.  In 2008′s list there was a tab to click on for companies that offered the “Best Benefits.” In 2009′s list that tab had been replaced with “Best Perks.” And as I said…words matter.

Benefit:  a service (as health insurance) or right (as to take vacation time) provided by an employer in addition to wages or salary

Perk (from perquisite): a privilege, gain, or profit incidental to regular salary or wages

And under the tabs, some of the categories included are healthcare and work-life balance.  So I guess the folks at Fortune used to think of these as a right and now they consider them a privilege.  Interesting choice of words especially when considering the Conference Board’s recent findings on employee job satisfaction and the times we live in with the debates/elections of the past couple weeks and the speech that will be given tonight.   At least I find it interesting…you?

Work-life news for week of 1/17-1/23

Monday, January 25th, 2010

In the News

Recession blamed for more stress and longer working week (Cambridge News)

Work/life balance is even more elusive these days according to new research from Clydesdale Bank.  One in seven workers in the East of England believe the downturn has made them feel more stressed at work, while over half (51%) feel it has made it more difficult to achieve a balance between work and their private lives.  Nearly a quarter (23%) also claim to be working longer hours, in some cases up to 11 hours more a week, than they did before the recession hit.

Manning the house: Paternity-leave fathers seek better work-life balance (SanLouisObispo.com)

Nevertheless, taking child care leave in Japan is still a daunting prospect for most men. The government is aiming to increase the percentage of men who do – its goal is 10 percent by fiscal 2017 – but a variety of factors are working against it.  “Before taking a year off work, I looked down on housekeeping and child-rearing,” said Yamada, now 42 and deputy mayor of Yokohama. “By the end of that year, however, I’d learned how tough it is.”

Recession bites in workplace for family-friendly policies too (Irish Times)

The need for family-friendly workplaces does not go away when times are tough. No matter how grateful parents of young children are for being in a job, they can’t be expected to turn their backs on the family until the recession ends.  Yet authoritarian employers, a climate of fear and increased competitiveness among colleagues fosters the culture of long hours and “presenteeism”. Some workers make sure they are at their desks first thing in the morning and last thing at night to show how much they are needed.  There is a lot of pressure on people to stay longer than they are being paid for, says Lynch, which has consequences for families and is particularly difficult for parents rushing to collect children from creches or childminders.

Gen-Y creates ‘parallel careers’ (Whig Standard)

Many are willing to trade high pay for fewer billable hours, flexible schedules and a better work/life balance. “They may work three days a week in one thing and two days a week in something completely different,” Luft says. “I’ve seen some people so strategic that one (of those jobs) may be recession proof and the second may be a hobby or something they love to do.”  A growing number of organizations recognize that flexible work arrangements boost employee morale. Provincial governments are also paying attention. “In Alberta, you’re starting to see the government being very proactive in helping students going through the curriculum trying to find different angles — not so much emphasis on one type of career path but perhaps two,” Luft says.

Public office in Colorado puts squeeze on families (Denver Post)

Work-life balance has become a key talking point in local political circles since Gov. Bill Ritter announced he was dropping out of the election because his wife and kids needed him more than the electorate did.  And before Denver Mayor John Hickenlooper and his notoriously private wife, Helen Thorpe, decided to thrust themselves and son Teddy, 7, further into the spotlight, they spent hours talking about how they could avoid the pitfalls oft discussed by Ritter and his wife, Jeannie.  “We were both seeing if we could get comfortable with this,” Thorpe said after Hickenlooper announced he would seek the Democratic nomination for governor. “I wasn’t comfortable with it right away, but I am now.”

Michelle Rodger: Everyone’s a winner when you achieve a work/life balance (Business Scotsman)

Press Releases

SAS Ranks No. 1 on FORTUNE Magazine’s Annual 100 Best Companies to Work for List

SAS has long been recognized as an innovator in encouraging employee work-life balance. Employees at SAS headquarters in Cary, NC, enjoy on-site amenities including free health care, subsidized child care, a free 66,000-square-foot recreation and fitness center, and programs that promote employee wellness. As a result, SAS employees are unusually loyal. Annual turnover is about 4 percent in an industry in which 22 percent is the norm. This low turnover translates into long-term relationships with customers, knowledge retention, and low recruitment and training costs.

Events

Wake Up, This Is the Reality!: A Fem2.0 Campaign to Shift the Public Narrative Around Work/Life

From January 25 to February 5, 2010, Fem2.0 will present a blog radio series – one program a day, each zooming in on how today’s work environment and policies are impacting a particular community. The series’ purpose is to demonstrate how work/life is NOT just a women’s issue but everyone’s issue. There will be more details about each segment very soon.

Career training series resumes Jan. 27 (Washington State University, January 27)

Helping employees enhance their careers, jobs and work-life management is the focus of a training series that continues this semester with “Career Assessment and Planning”…The courses will cover: workplace communication, ethics, computer security, work-life balance and more.

Fully Engaged:Achieving Work/Life Balance and High Performance – February 23rd, 8:30-4:30p, Kent State Stark Prof. Education and Conf. Center, North Canton, OH.

Workplace Flexibility: Flexibility in a Multigenerational Workforce

Thursday May 10, 2007 from 8:00am – 10:00am

Ann Arbor IT Zone
330 E. Liberty
Ann Arbor, Michigan 48104

“Work, Life, Balance: No Excuse!” February 4 Lunch ProgramCentury House Hotel & Conference Center,
997 New Loudon Road – Route 9 Latham, NY 12047

A Conversation on Workplace Flexibility Research Pt 2 (Georgetown Law event)

Video

The Case for Workplace Flexibility, Brad Harrington Boston College Center for Work & Families

Career Life Connection News and Events

Leanne Chase of CareerLifeConnection.com will be at the #Connect HR event on January 27 in Washington, DC.  If you are in the DC area and interested in meeting with her you can connect by commenting here, on twitter @leanneclc or by emailing her:  blog at careerlifeconnection dot com.

Success: Advancement and Caregiving–Challenging Work+Life Fit Roadblocks (Fast Company)

Really challenge what a good mother looks like for you personally.  Not what your mother says it is.  Not what the media says it is.  What do you say being a good mother looks like to you, based on your unique work and personal realities that are unlike anyone else’s.  Here are some of my favorite resources broadening the conversation about what it means to be a “good” mother:

What is a Mommy Blogger? (TheMamaBee)

Earlier this week Babble came out with it’s list of the fifty best “mommy bloggers.” In a lot of ways it’s a great list — I read many of these women and have linked to some of them, notably The Mommy Blog and Silicon Valley Moms Blog. But the list also left me a little conflicted because almost none of the blogs listed were issues-oriented…And yet, I would have loved to see a blogger like Morra Aarons-Mele (Women and Work, MomsRising), Joanne Bamberger (PunditMom), Kami Lewis-Levin (The Fence, A Blog for Working Moms), Leanne Chase (Career Life Connection) or Cali Yost (Work Life Fit) make the list. All are moms, all are successful bloggers, all write about issues core to mothering — and yet, somehow, they are not in the “mom blog” space.

Career Life Connection will be exhibiting at the Massachusetts Conference for Women on December 10, 2009 at the Boston Convention and Exhibit Center: Come on by and talk work/life balance/flexibility/fit at the annual conference where women can connect, be motivated, network, get inspired and build their skill base. Last year the event brought together more than 5,000 women for the day. Also be sure to check out the career fair raffle where Career Life Connection will be looking to put more balance back into your life with a one-hour massage gift certificate to Bella Sante.

Social Recruiting Summit – November 16 – NYC

Social media is rapidly becoming more than just another tool in a recruiter’s toolbox — it’s an important part of the future of the talent acquisition profession. The goal of #socialrecruiting summit is to have an industry conversation about these tools, talk about tactics and strategies that are already in the field and working, not pie-in-the-sky ideas. Leanne Chase of Career Life Connection will be part of that conversation. If you are attending the Social Media Summit or just in NYC and would like to talk about social media, workplace flexibility or work/life happiness with her contact her at chase at careerlifeconnection dot com.

Career Life Connection will be attending the OnRec/Kennedy Information Recruiting Conference in Chicago November 3 & 4th. If you’d like to meet Leanne Chase and talk work/life with her contact her at chase at careerlifeconnection dot com. You can also catch her and many HR professionals talking about how to fail spectacularly in business at this fun industry event.

Leanne Chase of Career Life Connection spoke about #work/life with Human Resources Professionals during the October 8th Episode of HR Happy Hour: The WorkLife Show.

HR happy hour

ERE Interviews: Career Life Connection (JobRadio.fm)

Last week we stalked some of the job search vendors at the ERE Fall Expo in Hollywood Florida. This is the first of several interesting interviews from the expo floor. Meet Leanne Chase from Career Life Connection, an online community all about finding flexible work.

Thank you to those who came before…now let’s keep going!

Monday, January 25th, 2010

Last night I spent some time reading an article about the 35th anniversary of the day women reporters were first allowed into a pro-sports locker room. It seems so long ago…35 years…and yet in reality it seems little has changed.

Walk in to a pro sports locker room as a woman and I guarantee you…you are still the story. Maybe not on big games like the all-star game or a championship game. But go in on a regular Tuesday. Just a normal game. But you need to get some work done and have questions that need to be answered.

You will be the story.

There will be jokes, jabs, things you hear and see that you will pretend not to hear and see. Many will be deliberate, some will not be.  And you will continue on…and do your job…and sigh. I know…I’ve been there.

So I’m taking some time to reflect and thank Robin Herman today. Because I could not have had the career in sports broadcasting I had without her breaking the barriers. But I’m also taking time to wish that more had changed in 35 years.

As the story indicates it was an interesting time for women and work.  As is 2010.  Women are at parity with men in the workforce and are earning more degrees than men in college.  How far we’ve come…and how far we still have to go.

There is a group of women who’d like to change the world.  They are meeting for lunch on Tuesday and I am so excited to be part of it.  How do we honor Robin Herman and her kind for breaking down the barriers?  By constantly talking about new barriers and continually building doors, windows and holes in those barriers.  If you are like me and are thankful for the opportunities others have given…but still need the world of work to change…please consider speaking, blogging, talking and yelling from the highest mountain top about the subject.  And in the meantime if you’re heading to, want to head to, thinking about going to BlogHer…you could also vote for these two sessions:

Would you pay to have more workplace flexibility?

Friday, January 22nd, 2010

I recently read about how people were willing to pay for their own smartphones to have more flexibility at work…you know so they could be more mobile and work where they want.  I think the stat that blew me away was the fact that only 11% of the workforce has company supplied smart phones and yet 39% of consumers say they own a smartphone.  So clearly people are already paying for this…

And when I thought about this I took a trip in the “way back” machine…to a time when smartphones weren’t all the rage and even cell phones weren’t nearly as prolific….

I was working on the Olympics for TV which meant I wasn’t always in the office.  I’d have to go to the various venues and do some work.  One day an email came around asking us all for our cell phone numbers so the office could get in touch while we were on the road. They assured us any and all charges incurred for business would be paid by the company.

I told them I didn’t have one since I didn’t – the powers that be grumbled.

A young co-worker happily gave them his number – the powers that be smiled.

Time went on and I saw my co-worker was often submitting highlighted cell phone bills, being given the third degree about whether those calls were really necessary business calls, and then waiting 3 months to get the money back that he had already paid out to his cell phone provider.

He grumbled.

I smiled.

Time went by and now it was almost “games-time”, when things can get a little hectic and no one is in the office.  So another email came around.  Once again they needed cell phone numbers…no really, really…they said.

Once again I told them I did not have one. I was asked to buy one.  I told them no.  I explained that if they needed me to have a cell phone they would need to provide me with one.

They grumbled.

I smiled.  And I was handed a phone.

Why is this story relevant?  Because I think it shows how easily employees are willing to give an employer something they don’t deserve for free.  If you are mobile because of your job…and your employer expects you to be on top of email…then they should provide you with a smartphone.  If they don’t, they clearly do not feel that being in touch when you’re mobile is necessary – so why do  workers?

I agree with the article…workers are getting a raw deal but I’m not sure that’s the company’s fault.  Why wouldn’t the company take something for free that benefits them?  The real question is why are workers so willing to provide it?  As always I welcome your thoughts.

Working from home and the Mass. special election

Wednesday, January 20th, 2010

I assure you this is not a political post.  The only thing I will say is it was nice to have voter turnout in some cities/towns as high as 78% yesterday, especially after the dismal and truly embarrassing turnout of less than 15% statewide for the primary.

Now on to work/life.

I work from home.  I love it.  It has its challenges.  Some of them are self-imposed like the fact that I love living in the city…which is rather expensive…which means our house is not a palace.  It is a modest 2-bedroom condo with no office.  I may be one of the only people who actually uses their laptop on their lap, most of the time.  I’m not complaining – I like being in my PJs on my comfy bed talking, writing, blathering away to you all.  But it really does have its challenges.  Like right now as I’m writing in the dark so as not to disturb the sleeping household.  Other work from home fun includes:

  • Little one who feels it is her right to have access to her mommy 24/7 – knocking on the door before barging in is a big improvement though.
  • A television set that mocks me on days that I’d rather not work – sorry cable, you had to bite it, “True Hollywood Story” was just too much to resist.
  • Home-based childcare – what’s not to like about having your child’s laundry done for you?  But the machines are in the master bath…which really means the bathroom everyone needs to tromp through my “office” to get to.
  • A consultant hubby who is curently “on the beach” which is consultant speak for no active client.  So he’s been hanging around the house looking for a project, a playmate, a lunch date or just someone to talk to.
  • A busy building where I know and like the vendors like the UPS guy whose family we’ve gone camping with, seriously!  So the buzzer of my unit rings a lot – even if packages aren’t for me.
  • Neighbors children who know I’m home and have extra keys when they lock themselves out, or call on me when they can’t get their parents car out/in to a tight parking space or have recently baked cookies and want to share (this last one is actually quite a nice perk!)

So I’m used to distractions…but I also like to read, think, read more, think more, think more, think more and then write.  It’s a process which can be easily derailed so the fewer distractions the better when I finally get around to putting fingers to keyboard.

Unfortunately a heated political campaign takes precedence – at least in the minds of the candidates and their managers.  Apparently political campaigns don’t have to pay attention to the do not call lists.  Did you know that?  I didn’t.  But it makes sense…I mean hey why not give yourselves the power to not only make the laws but also the loopholes that benefit you.

In a typical week my home phone never rings.  In fact there are times I completely forget it exists.  But that was impossible in the last week and a half.  Starting a week ago Sunday my home phone received roughly 5 calls a day…per candidate!  Now don’t get me wrong being called by the Leader of the Free World is a little heady, even if it is a recorded call.  Did you hear from President Obama this week?  That’s what I thought.  And I know my Dad would have gotten a kick out of Curt Schilling calling.  I mean that bloody sock game is the stuff legends are made of…especially for us dramatic, long-suffering Red Sox fans.  That was fun and all but the calls kept coming and I couldn’t take it.  So I did what I do…I was a twit…which means I sent a message to both candidates on twitter last Tuesday:

@leanneclc:  I’m serious @marthacoakley and @scottbrownMA stop calling my home – at this point you are harassing us and now I don’t like either of you!

And it worked…the calls stopped for the rest of that day and the next…I got some work done…but then they just couldn’t help themselves anymore and needed to reach out and touch my home again, and again, and again.

The election is over…but I think I’ve learned a powerful lesson…there is a volume button on the ringer and clearly I need to use it more effectively.  Especially during the political season in Massachusetts.

Last week’s news in work-life (1/10-1/16/2010)

Monday, January 18th, 2010

In the News

What Gen-Y workers want now — and why (CFO Daily News)

For employers, getting Generation-Y employees to see the value of company-sponsored benefits has traditionally been a challenge. But the recession may have changed that.  In fact, 62% of these employees said the quality of benefits packages influences their choice of employer and 64% said it impacts job loyalty…However, these employees rank work/life balance a top priority — with 75% revealing that work/life balance drives their career choices.

Children ‘may lower parents’ blood pressure’ find researchers (Telegraph)

Despite the worries over money, education, health and work/life balance, parenthood can be good for the heart in the same way as exercise or cutting out salt, for instance, experts claimed.  It is thought the fulfilment of children and giving life meaning makes parents more content which has an effect on blood pressure, researchers from Brigham Young University in Utah said.

Employers and their businesses run the risk of being “named and shamed” on social media sites if they fail to manage new workplace flexibility laws properly, a Brisbane workplace lawyer has warned.  Brad Petley, workplace relations and safety partner at Holman Webb, says employers who have not prepared for r2r – the right of workers to request flexible work practices – could suffer business brand and bottom line damage.

Older workers want work life balance (Miami Herald)

In the near future, Czaja says, employers will accommodate the increasing number of older workers through the work/life benefits traditionally requested by young parents — flexible schedules, telework arrangements, contract work. She believes keeping older people productive over the next decade is crucial to a strong economy. “We need to prepare for it.”

The Top 5 Socio-Political Business Risks for 2010 (Huffington Post)

While suicide is certainly not a top risk for 2010, it is an extremely important trend that multinationals must begin to take seriously. Stress caused by debt, drought, work/life balance issues, and corporate malfeasance have been blamed for incidents ranging from the mass suicides of Indian farmers (over 1,500 farmers in the Indian State of Chattisgarh alone in 2009) to the suicide epidemic that swept France Telecom and claimed 26 lives in 16 months.  Whether it’s poor management, the economic crisis, or what Stockholm University in a recent study labeled the “contagious suicide syndrome,” multinationals must realize they have a shared responsibility to take measures that will effectively prevent suicide from becoming an alternative grievance mechanism in the coming year.

Bosses fight to keep good staff: experts (Sydney Morning Herald)

“It’s important from an employer perspective to ensure that staff are adequately supported to ensure that you can hold on to skilled staff,” Mr Sebastian said.  A survey of 930 people carried out by recruitment company Chandler Macleod (CMG) found 72 per cent of employees were looking for work outside their current industry and 62 per cent were looking for work outside their current speciality.  An overwhelming majority of job-seeking respondents, 91 per cent, cited job security as the most important ingredient in a new job, closely followed by 86 per cent who said they highly valued a good work-life balance.

Emirati men urged to spend more time with children (The National)

Young Emirati men should become more involved in the raising of their children, provide support for their wives and strive for a healthy work-life balance. That is the message from one young Emirati husband and father…Dr al Redha told his story on the second and final day of the Arab Women Leadership Forum. He was one of only three male speakers at the conference, which examined issues affecting women in the UAE and the region.Women’s forum explores ‘Work-Life balance’ (Trade Arabia)

Dubai Women Establishment (DWE) held the ‘Second Arab Women Leadership Forum’ on the theme ‘Women’s Leadership in Organizations: Towards New Conceptions of Work-Life Balance’.  The conference explored the issue of work-life balance through the prism of organizational and government policies affecting the maintenance of equilibrium between family and work, as well as the obstacles and challenges working women face while attempting to maintain this crucial balance.

Paying for Flexible Work Schedules (Government Executive)

Over at Wired Workplace, Brittany Ballenstedt has an interesting point: according to new polling data, some workers want more flexible schedules so much that they’re willing to pay for the technology that will allow them to work outside of regular work hours, usually for smartphones…Even though I’ve seen this pattern play out with many of my friends who foot the entire bill for their smartphone useage even though they’re using it to extend their productivity and availability hours for their employers, I find it a little worrisome. First, if workers genuinely need technology because their employers want them to stay productive, their employers should probably be paying for it, and making sure such technology has proper information safeguards, etc.

Aussie Mums Welcomed to Work (International Business Times)

More than half of Australian businesses are intending to hire more mothers returning to work in the next two years, according to a global survey. The survey conducted by leading serviced offices and workplace solutions provider Regus, of over 11,000 corporates across 13 countries, found that nearly half (44 per cent) of businesses plan to hire more mothers returning to part-time work over the next two years.

For US survey results: http://www.abetteroffice.com/office-space-advice/office-productivity/regus-sets-stage-for-return-of-working-moms/

Treat your spouse like a customer (Miami Herald)

Are you spending more time with your customers or co-workers than your family or spouse? I read an interview with Louis Upkins Jr. who wrote a self-help  book titled Treat Me Like a Customer: Using Lessons from Work to Succeed in Life. His book plays off the central notion that home life would improve if busy business executives cared as much for their wives or husbands and kids (and showed it) as they do for their most-valued customers. Here’s an excerpt from a Q & A with Upkins in The Tennessean. His answers will wake you up.

SMEs warned over employee exodus in February and March (Smart Company – Australia)

The Chandler Macleod Group Post GFC Candidate Study Report reveals about 95% of the survey’s 930 respondents are now looking for work, with 73% actively looking and 57% optimistic of finding a job within the next 90 days.  Additionally, about 72% are actually looking for work outside their current industry, with 91% looking for job security before they actually make a switch.  The top reasons given for searching for new work were limited career opportunities, cited by 41% of respondents, feeling undervalued, 24%, and losing faith in the current organisation, 18%. The most important conditions in a new job were cited as job security at 91%, work-life balance at 86%, overseas posting opportunities at 25% and bonus structure at 48%.

SCB fosters closer relations through team engagement activity (Brunei.FM)

Standard Chartered Bank encourages all its employees to have a healthy work life balance by taking time out to engage in break out activities within their teams and to spend time with their families through Happy Fridays whereby departments are encouraged not to schedule meetings after 3pm in the afternoon on Fridays and for all staff to go home on time. Each month, departments are also encouraged to take time out on a Friday for team bonding through an activity together such as going for a team walk.

Network Rail in call to halt further strikes (Wales Online)

Signal workers across South Wales have been on strike since Monday in a row over new rosters for staff….“Our members have made it clear that they are not prepared to see their work-life balance wrecked as part of an imposed cost-cutting exercise.”

Career development tops list for new job prospects (Globe and Mail)

Forty per cent of 1,300 respondents to a survey by staffing service Right Management Inc. said the potential for career development is the most important factor when choosing a new boss.  That was followed by work-life balance (21 per cent); innovative workplace (15 per cent); and competitive pay and benefits (12 per cent).

Maternal Affairs: Back to square mum (Times Online)

As the recession takes its toll, many high-flying career women are finding themselves out of a job. So what happens when stay-at-home motherhood is forced upon you?…

Be realistic with career and life goals (News Observer)

Reclaim work/life balance. Lisa Gates of Craving Balance Coaching, says this common goal can be accomplished, but it takes focusing on priorities.  “Fear causes us to do more and take on more and say yes when it’s the exact opposite of what we need to do,” she says.  Gates suggests getting hyper-focused on two or three priorities at work and home. “You will have to look at all the demands on your time and ask, ‘Is this in line with my priority?’ If not, eliminate it,” Gates says.

In the Blogs

How balanced is your life? (People Alchemy)

First I was dying to finish high school and start college.
And then, I was dying to finish college and start working.
And then, I was dying to marry and have children.
And then, I was dying for my children to grow old enough for school so I could return to work.
And then, I was dying to retire.
And now, I am dying……
And suddenly realise, I forgot to live.

As you read this old wisdom from an unknown source, how do you feel?

First Lady Michelle Obama Promotes Work/Life Balance (Workforce Management)

Such worries undermine work performance, Obama said. She argued that flextime, telecommuting and paid time off produces happier employees and more profitable companies.  “Instead of spending all day at work worrying about what’s happening at home, they have the support that they need to concentrate on their jobs,” Obama said.  Although many employers have established good work/life benefits, too many Americans don’t have access to flexibility policies, Obama said.  “Staying home to care for a sick child or taking an elderly parent to a doctor’s appointment shouldn’t mean risking one’s job,” Obama said. “Things like paid family leave and sick days and affordable child care should be the norm, not the exception.

Proven ways to retain your best employees (Professional Carwashing and Detailing)

The difficulty in finding and keeping talented people is having a catastrophic impact on many businesses and industries throughout the world. In addition to those retiring, surveys show one out of every three people plan on quitting their jobs this year…In today’s workplace, flexibility rules.  A one-size-fits-all approach has long since lost its effectiveness.  Workers will migrate to a company whose benefit packages and schedules help them meet the demands of their lives, whether they are single parents, adults who care for aging parents, older workers, younger workers, part-time workers, or telecommuters.

Work/Life Balance – It’s All Relative (Learning Curve Coach)

Another thing that’s really different today is the quality of my life. It’s gone way up. WAY up. It’s filled with far less of the stuff I don’t want in my life and far more of the stuff I do.  For me, the work/life balancing act was made exponentially easier when I engaged in work I love versus the kind that made me want to stick needles in my eyes. But it’s still a balancing act.

Alfred P. Sloan Awards for Business Excellence in Workplace Flexibility (When Work Works)

Applications are now open for the 2010 Alfred P. Sloan Awards for Business Excellence in Workplace Flexibility! This prestigious award recognizes employers across the country that are successfully using flexibility to meet both business and employee goals. To see if your organization qualifies, read the details below.

Working Women (My Job Assistant)

I think that things are slowly progressing for women in the work force. You still need to work a bit harder just to stay in the game. But at the same time, there are different expectations for working mothers than there are for working fathers. Women lose a bit of credability when they have kids and have to work harder to show thier commitment to the job. It is totally different for men. Here are a few tips for working women who are having trouble balancing their work and home lives:

U of T study finds work-life balance elusive (University of Toronto)

Researchers measured the extent to which work was interfering with personal time using data from a national survey of 1,800 American workers.   The authors describe five core sets of findings:

  • People with college or postgraduate degrees tend to report their work interferes with their personal life more than those with a high school degree;
  • Professionals tend to report their work interferes with their home life more than people in all other occupational categories;
  • Several job-related demands predict more work seeping into the home life: interpersonal conflict at work, job insecurity, noxious environments, and high-pressure situations; however, having control over the pace of one’s own work diminishes the negative effects of high-pressure situations;
  • Several job-related resources also predict more work interference with home life: job authority, job skill level, decision-making latitude, and personal earnings;
  • As predicted, working long hours (50-plus per week) is associated with more work interference at home—surprisingly, however, that relationship is stronger among people who have some or full control over the timing of their work;

“Work+Life Fit in 5 Days” Series–Seeing the Possibilities (Fast Company blog)

As I listened to their stories, almost every one of them said the same thing to me, “I loved my time with my children, but I wish I’d known there might have been another way I could have kept working and had some flexibility. I just didn’t know there was any other option besides quitting.” They didn’t see the possibilities.

Press Releases

Booz Allen’s policies help staff in Ohio—and firm-wide—meet changing professional and personal commitments.

“Booz Allen knows that great jobs also include something more: An understanding of work-life integration,” Miles says. “At the firm, we provide our employees with the flexibility to focus on what’s most important to meet their goals at home and at work. We offer options for staff to manage responsibilities, network, learn, and build camaraderie, while they provide exceptional service to their clients and support their team.”  Booz Allen’s robust flexible work arrangement program includes telecommuting, flex work hours, paid time off, and options for leaves of absence. The firm’s philosophy of promoting a healthy work-life balance allows staff the flexibility they need to adjust their schedules to meet personal obligations and goals while successfully addressing work responsibilities.

Events

Wake Up, This Is the Reality!: A Fem2.0 Campaign to Shift the Public Narrative Around Work/Life

From January 25 to February 5, 2010, Fem2.0 will present a blog radio series – one program a day, each zooming in on how today’s work environment and policies are impacting a particular community. The series’ purpose is to demonstrate how work/life is NOT just a women’s issue but everyone’s issue. There will be more details about each segment very soon.

Career training series resumes Jan. 27 (Washington State University, January 27)

Helping employees enhance their careers, jobs and work-life management is the focus of a training series that continues this semester with “Career Assessment and Planning”…The courses will cover: workplace communication, ethics, computer security, work-life balance and more.

Workplace Flexibility: Flexibility in a Multigenerational Workforce

Thursday May 10, 2007 from 8:00am – 10:00am

Ann Arbor IT Zone
330 E. Liberty
Ann Arbor, Michigan 48104

“Work, Life, Balance: No Excuse!” February 4 Lunch ProgramCentury House Hotel & Conference Center,
997 New Loudon Road – Route 9 Latham, NY 12047

A Conversation on Workplace Flexibility Research Pt 2 (Georgetown Law event)

Research Reports/Papers

Career Life Connection News and Events

Success: Advancement and Caregiving–Challenging Work+Life Fit Roadblocks (Fast Company)

Really challenge what a good mother looks like for you personally.  Not what your mother says it is.  Not what the media says it is.  What do you say being a good mother looks like to you, based on your unique work and personal realities that are unlike anyone else’s.  Here are some of my favorite resources broadening the conversation about what it means to be a “good” mother:

What is a Mommy Blogger? (TheMamaBee)

Earlier this week Babble came out with it’s list of the fifty best “mommy bloggers.” In a lot of ways it’s a great list — I read many of these women and have linked to some of them, notably The Mommy Blog and Silicon Valley Moms Blog. But the list also left me a little conflicted because almost none of the blogs listed were issues-oriented…And yet, I would have loved to see a blogger like Morra Aarons-Mele (Women and Work, MomsRising), Joanne Bamberger (PunditMom), Kami Lewis-Levin (The Fence, A Blog for Working Moms), Leanne Chase (Career Life Connection) or Cali Yost (Work Life Fit) make the list. All are moms, all are successful bloggers, all write about issues core to mothering — and yet, somehow, they are not in the “mom blog” space.

Career Life Connection will be exhibiting at the Massachusetts Conference for Women on December 10, 2009 at the Boston Convention and Exhibit Center: Come on by and talk work/life balance/flexibility/fit at the annual conference where women can connect, be motivated, network, get inspired and build their skill base. Last year the event brought together more than 5,000 women for the day. Also be sure to check out the career fair raffle where Career Life Connection will be looking to put more balance back into your life with a one-hour massage gift certificate to Bella Sante.

Social Recruiting Summit – November 16 – NYC

Social media is rapidly becoming more than just another tool in a recruiter’s toolbox — it’s an important part of the future of the talent acquisition profession. The goal of #socialrecruiting summit is to have an industry conversation about these tools, talk about tactics and strategies that are already in the field and working, not pie-in-the-sky ideas. Leanne Chase of Career Life Connection will be part of that conversation. If you are attending the Social Media Summit or just in NYC and would like to talk about social media, workplace flexibility or work/life happiness with her contact her at chase at careerlifeconnection dot com.

Career Life Connection will be attending the OnRec/Kennedy Information Recruiting Conference in Chicago November 3 & 4th. If you’d like to meet Leanne Chase and talk work/life with her contact her at chase at careerlifeconnection dot com. You can also catch her and many HR professionals talking about how to fail spectacularly in business at this fun industry event.

Leanne Chase of Career Life Connection spoke about #work/life with Human Resources Professionals during the October 8th Episode of HR Happy Hour: The WorkLife Show.

HR happy hour

ERE Interviews: Career Life Connection (JobRadio.fm)

Last week we stalked some of the job search vendors at the ERE Fall Expo in Hollywood Florida. This is the first of several interesting interviews from the expo floor. Meet Leanne Chase from Career Life Connection, an online community all about finding flexible work.

Pardon the interruption

Thursday, January 14th, 2010

But some things are more important than work-life balance.  And the last few days have once again taught us that.

As you’re pondering work/life check out this interesting report I came across today, “When Life Gets in the Way of Work.” I found it interesting because on the one hand the survey takers said that having control over your work/life made you less stressed and on the other those who did have control worked more than 50 hours/a week and had lots of work/life stress.

And for the record…I, personally, am a fan of Doctors Without Borders and their work.  One reason is that when the situation is handled and they have enough money they don’t take your donation and shift it to general stuff..they tell you they’re good.  How nice.

Support Doctors Without Borders in Haiti

Of American Idol, Work and a New Way of Doing Things

Wednesday, January 13th, 2010

I don’t watch American Idol.  I did.  But as a college friend said many years ago “mean people suck.”  And I agree.

I think American Idol, particularly the audition shows, has been intentionally mean in the past.  From Simon Cowell to the producers to the promotion people.  Yes you get some simply seeking their 15 minutes of fame and you get those that will embrace the mean comments of Cowell and the horrific way the producers choose to portray them and they will make lemonade like William Hung.  But more often they are crushed.  The contestant honestly thought they could sing, went for it and found out they suck (shame on those close to them for not being semi-honest about it).  And they didn’t find out in any sort of a nice way.

I wouldn’t want to be treated that way…I wouldn’t treat another that way…I will not watch it.  Mean people suck.

That is true at work, too.   And I have been guilty of staying too long at companies that treat people poorly (myself, included) because I didn’t know where else to go.  But that was wrong…you see we as a group can only change things collectively.  Which might be happening sometime soon:

What It Means: Job Dissatisfaction and The Conference Board Numbers

Job Seekers Creating “Black Lists” Of Employers

I also don’t think profits at all cost make sense.  I recently launched a job board promoting companies that have people working flexibly and would be willing to speak with candidates who are interested in more work-life flexibility.  I will not put just any company on that board…I don’t care how much money they want to pay me.  They do not get to promote themselves as a flexible workplace on this site without answering some questions, first.  I don’t think profits at any cost are worth it.  And I’m sensing more businesses are feeling this way as well:

How Much Will It Cost Google to Exit China

A New Approach to China

Yes, I am sure I am naive – after all I’m guessing American Idol doesn’t miss me.  But I’m also hopeful and idealistic that change can occur in business and the workplace if people say “enough is enough.”

I’m not sure when this change will occur and I know plenty of people right now feel they need to stay right where they are…bad companies or not.  But that will not always be the case.  And no matter which hat you’re wearing, consumer, employee, TV viewer, or citizen…let’s stop the mean people by voting with our feet.  If we do that collectively things may change.

And full disclosure – I know this is hard…my husband and I have tried to not buy Chinese-made products for years…until almost everything in almost every store was from China and we really couldn’t anymore.  And last night the building I live in was on American Idol – I know from friends/family who called & told me.  It would be fun to go on to hulu.com and see…but then I’m not really voting with my feet and I am allowing mean people to continue being mean.

Work-Life News for the week ending January 9, 2010

Monday, January 11th, 2010

In the News

Pushing The Women’s Movement Forward (Forbes)

Congress should also expand access to workplace flexibility and fair work schedules by reforming the Fair Labor Standards Act and passing a law that guarantees workers the right to request flexible work. Flexible work arrangements (e.g., part-time work, flexible workday schedules and telecommuting) are crucial for many workers with multiple responsibilities. Unfortunately, outdated labor laws continue to make flexible work difficult.

Americans, Amid Recession, Dislike Their Jobs (The Street)

Even after the deepest recession in 80 years and an unemployment rate that doubled in two years, many Americans don’t like their jobs.  So says a Conference Board report, which found that only 45% of Americans are satisfied with their employment situation, based on a survey of 5,000 households. Just 12% said they were “very satisfied.” That marks the lowest job-satisfaction rate since the organization first conducted the survey in 1987, when 61% of respondents liked their jobs. In 2008, the satisfaction rate was 49%.

Super-fast broadband for the whole country is vital to future prosperity (Telegraph)

Teleworking can mean more job opportunities, for example, for the disabled and those with child-care responsibilities who wish to work part-time – or allow someone to take a job with a firm based too far away for a daily commute – while also improving work-life balance for many. Potentially, it can also contribute to reducing congestion and lowering carbon emissions.

The number of people working remotely from home more than doubled in the decade to 2007 and, as next-generation broadband becomes more widely available, this figure will only increase rapidly. All our lives will be transformed beyond recognition by the exciting opportunities for business, education, leisure and access to public services. Indeed, it will soon be seen as indispensable as electricity, gas or water.

Teleworking can mean more job opportunities, for example, for the disabled and those with child-care responsibilities who wish to work part-time – or allow someone to take a job with a firm based too far away for a daily commute – while also improving work-life balance for many. Potentially, it can also contribute to reducing congestion and lowering carbon emissions.

The number of people working remotely from home more than doubled in the decade to 2007 and, as next-generation broadband becomes more widely available, this figure will only increase rapidly. All our lives will be transformed beyond recognition by the exciting opportunities for business, education, leisure and access to public services. Indeed, it will soon be seen as indispensable as electricity, gas or water.

Head honchos keep work aside for a big slice of life (The Economic Times)

Babu and Kaza represent a growing tribe of executives who take time out for their family and themselves, despite tough work schedules and high-stress jobs.  In their own quiet ways, they’re cutting off from the professional network and bringing more balance into their lives.

Workplace flexibility offers greater security (Human Resources Magazine)

Cynical workforces are keenly aware they are being engaged with to agree to something they may not like – and while that might mitigate the impact of change around them it does not alter the fact of it.  HR needs to move to a new employment paradigm – one that acknowledges the reality of risk, uncertainty and change. The pressure on organisations to restructure and change is intensifying. The need for contractual flexibility as they reshape and restructure is obvious…

It is a hugely attractive vision:employees would have real power. HR conversations would become genuinely honest; engagement would be a two-way process founded on greater equality; and insurance systems would handle the reality of risk. Greater flexibility, greater security – any takers?

Survey: Most Americans unhappy at work (Dallas Business Journal)

Americans of all ages and at all pay levels are increasingly unhappy at their jobs, according to a new report by The Conference Board, an independent economic and business forecasting organization .  Researchers interviewed 5,000 households across the United States and found that only 45 percent of those surveyed are satisfied with their jobs, down from 61.1 percent back in 1987 when the annual survey was launched.  The Conference Board says the numbers are overwhelming negative and could spell trouble for the nation’s overall productivity.

Harvard Prof Wonders: Why Are There So Many Women Veterinarians? (Wall Street Journal)

Women are more likely, for instance, to be labor economists than macroeconomists. “But in other cases the decision is largely governed by a desire for career and family and involves a trade-off between earnings and aspects of the job such as work flexibility over the year, week and day.” Women are trading pay to get workplace flexibility, she suggests, and are drawn to professions where it’s relatively easier to do that.

Smartphones: Office Shackles or Tool for Work-Life Balance (San Francisco Gate)

Any and all executives or managers looking to get more productivity from their information workers–and, really, what company isn’t shamelessly espousing a “more with less” philosophy these days?–might want to pay attention to the following strategy: Set your workers free from the office…”Telework is on the rise, poised to grow to 63 million U.S. iWorkers by 2016,” Schadler writes. “Regardless of its telework frequency, this group is technology-bound, more likely to use virtually every tool in the stable.”

Your Career: New Year Know-How (New York Times)

At the start of a new year, many people hope to see some positive changes in their jobs. Given the struggles at many companies, workers may need to make those changes happen themselves.  Fortunately, basics like keeping a good attitude and maintaining a healthy work/life balance can go a long way toward improving a worker’s sense of well-being. That might not get you a raise or immediate promotion, but you might feel a lot better when you walk through the office door each day.

Fresh walk-out for south Wales rail signalling workers (BBC News)

General secretary Bob Crow said since the last action members were “even more determined” to stop the imposition of new rosters, which he said would wreck the work-life balance of staff.  “This dispute is all about money,” said Mr Crow, who is expected to address workers at a meeting in Cardiff later.  “It’s about cutting corners and demanding that staff are at management’s beck and call regardless of the impact on home lives.”

For More Workers, Home Is Where the Office Is (Wall Street Journal)

As we continue to dig ourselves out of the deepest recession since the Great Depression, many of us have lost corporate jobs. Others worry that layoffs are lurking. We’re taking on free-lance assignments, contract work and short-term projects — and getting them done in the extra bedroom, eat-in kitchen or spare corner in the utility room.

In the Blogs

California: An Example of State Action on Workplace Flexibility (Sloan Work and Family Blog)

What is undeniable is that work family conflicts are real and growing. There is a mismatch between the needs of families and the structure of work. Furthermore, there is a growing consensus in Washington that workplace flexibility of some kind is needed and that creative public policy is part of the solution. Flexible work arrangements, teleworking, job sharing and other policies that the private and public sectors are already employing matter. Yet more action is needed and needed now.  As California marks the important anniversary of its policy, may all those who care about improving work life balance in America take this opportunity to reflect creatively on policies that can enhance the flexibility of workplaces for the benefit of all.

Who are the most satisfied workers? (Miami Herald – Work/life balancing act blog)

Who do you think is more satisfied, the guy who made it to the corner office and calls the shots or the guy who started his own business and struggles to pay the bills? When it comes to work life balance the most satisfied workers are self employed. I can completely understand why that would be true, can you?  It feels good to have control over your own work schedule.

Work-life Balance for Small Businesses (Is4business)

The report into flexible working for SMEs offers 10 recommendations to make sure that flexible working works for everyone. These include:

  • The perception that flexible working is an arrangement for parents and carers only needs to be challenged as it can cause resentment in the workplace amongst other employees.
  • Any extension of the right to request flexible working should be on a voluntary basis. SMEs need a transition period to check their suitability for the scheme and to try out new working models in practice.
  • The benefits system is too inflexible and does not support people who wish to work part time. The situation, where couples are often forced to take one full time job instead of two part time ones because of the way the system rewards full time working. In particular, part time work should not simply be seen as something available to only low skills workers.

The Next Decade: What’s In Store for Working Moms (and Dads)? Hint: Meow! (Current Mom)

Today’s blog is a response to several pieces from the past week or so on the future of women – mainly, professional women - and work.  Actually, it’s less of a reaction and more of a tour through some of the articles, blogs, and other pieces I’ve been reading in the past week or so about women and workplace changes. It provides some context – some background reading - for my more personal musings from last week about finding, creating, and refreshing my own work-life balance. Turns out that the at the beginning of our new recession-led decade, working women – and the issues of child care and work-life balance – are all the rage.

Paid Leave Makes Horse Sense (Moms Rising)

Vacations are good for your health.   And, you don’t need to get away to any fancy Caribbean retreat to get the benefit of time-off from work.  But it helps if you are a horse.  In New York City, that is.  The City’s Health Department has proposed new rules for those horses hitched to carriages that carry tourists around parts of town.  If implemented, the horses would get 5 weeks of job-protected vacation.  During their time off, the horses would continue to enjoy their standard payment – room and board, along with grooming.  It is a reasonable business decision to invest in these workers since the vacation time will likely prolong their work-life and enhance their productivity…For the rest of the nation’s workforce, however, no federal law provides any paid time off – and that includes vacation, holidays, and sick time.

5 Barriers to Workplace Flexibility (Los Angeles Security Camera)

Workplace flexibility, results-only work environments, and work-life balance initiatives often get stopped in their tracks before there’s even an attempt at making them work. Why? Because people fear change, fear losing control, and are worried about potential negative implications that may or may not be realized.  Here are five barriers to workplace flexibility that may be holding you and your organization back from fully embracing the flexibility you want and need:

But what is work-life balance, exactly? And how do you achieve it?  Experts say there is no single definition and some don’t even like to use the phrase. But generally they agree work-life balance translates to satisfaction with one’s entire life — professional and personal — and it can be reached even while working long hours.

Top 5 work/life balance stories of 2009 (NW Jobs)

I could say a lot of bad things about the many ways in which 2009 did a serious number on the workforce. Instead, I’ll list what I think were some of the most significant work/life balance stories of the year. If you’d like to weigh in with your own, please do so in the comments below.

Press Releases

Despite Competitive Labor Market, One-in-Five Workers Plan to Change Jobs in 2010, New CareerBuilder Survey Reveals

One-in-ten workers (12 percent) whose companies cut benefits or perks said they would stay at their current jobs for six months or less, while 27 percent of workers who did not receive a raise or promotion in 2009 said they would leave their current positions in less than a year if they did not receive either. Nearly one-in-five (18 percent) workers who experienced pay cuts said they are willing to stay at their current jobs for only six months or less.

Events

Wake Up, This Is the Reality!: A Fem2.0 Campaign to Shift the Public Narrative Around Work/Life

From January 25 to February 5, 2010, Fem2.0 will present a blog radio series – one program a day, each zooming in on how today’s work environment and policies are impacting a particular community. The series’ purpose is to demonstrate how work/life is NOT just a women’s issue but everyone’s issue. There will be more details about each segment very soon.

Workplace Flexibility: Flexibility in a Multigenerational Workforce

Thursday May 10, 2007 from 8:00am – 10:00am

Ann Arbor IT Zone
330 E. Liberty
Ann Arbor, Michigan 48104

“Work, Life, Balance: No Excuse!” February 4 Lunch ProgramCentury House Hotel & Conference Center,
997 New Loudon Road – Route 9 Latham, NY 12047

A Conversation on Workplace Flexibility Research Pt 2 (Georgetown Law event)

Research Reports/Papers

Workplace Flexibility Policies and Wage Growth: Are the Penalties Equal for All Workers?

This paper explores the career trajectories of workers using flexible work practices to see how employers evaluate such workers using the standard metric of wage increases over time. Earlier research has shown markedly lower wage growth for professional and managerial mothers who use flexible work arrangements when their children are small (Glass, 2004), but fathers and non-parents who use the same workplace policies have not been carefully evaluated. Yet fathers who deviate from the “ideal worker” norm of continuous work availability are becoming more numerous, while many other fathers express dissatisfaction with their lack of flexible work options (Powell, 1997; Reynolds, 2005). National survey results show strong interest in and utilization of flexible work practices across a variety of family statuses (Jacobs and Gerson, 2004). This study estimates fixed effects models of respondents in the 1989-2002 panels of the National Longitudinal Study of Youth to assess the comparative impact of having a flexible schedule, working from home, and working reduced hours on the wage growth of mothers, fathers, and non-parents.

Career Life Connection News and Events

What is a Mommy Blogger? (TheMamaBee)

Earlier this week Babble came out with it’s list of the fifty best “mommy bloggers.” In a lot of ways it’s a great list — I read many of these women and have linked to some of them, notably The Mommy Blog and Silicon Valley Moms Blog.  But the list also left me a little conflicted because almost none of the blogs listed were issues-oriented…And yet, I would have loved to see a blogger like Morra Aarons-Mele (Women and Work, MomsRising), Joanne Bamberger (PunditMom), Kami Lewis-Levin (The Fence, A Blog for Working Moms), Leanne Chase (Career Life Connection) or Cali Yost (Work Life Fit) make the list.  All are moms, all are successful bloggers, all write about issues core to mothering — and yet, somehow, they are not in the “mom blog” space.

Career Life Connection will be exhibiting at the Massachusetts Conference for Women on December 10, 2009 at the Boston Convention and Exhibit Center:  Come on by and talk work/life balance/flexibility/fit at the annual conference where women can connect, be motivated, network, get inspired and build their skill base.  Last year the event brought together more than 5,000 women for the day.  Also be sure to check out the career fair raffle where Career Life Connection will be looking to put more balance back into your life with a one-hour massage gift certificate to Bella Sante.

Social Recruiting Summit – November 16 – NYC

Social media is rapidly becoming more than just another tool in a recruiter’s toolbox — it’s an important part of the future of the talent acquisition profession. The goal of #socialrecruiting summit is to have an industry conversation about these tools, talk about tactics and strategies that are already in the field and working, not pie-in-the-sky ideas.  Leanne Chase of Career Life Connection will be part of that conversation.  If you are attending the Social Media Summit or just in NYC and would like to talk about social media, workplace flexibility or work/life happiness with her contact her at chase at careerlifeconnection dot com.

Career Life Connection will be attending the OnRec/Kennedy Information Recruiting Conference in Chicago November 3 & 4th.  If you’d like to meet Leanne Chase and talk work/life with her contact her at chase at careerlifeconnection dot com.  You can also catch her and many HR professionals talking about how to fail spectacularly in business at this fun industry event.

Leanne Chase of Career Life Connection spoke about #work/life with Human Resources Professionals during the October 8th Episode of HR Happy Hour:  The WorkLife Show.

HR happy hour

ERE Interviews:  Career Life Connection (JobRadio.fm)

Last week we stalked some of the job search vendors at the ERE Fall Expo in Hollywood Florida. This is the first of several interesting interviews from the expo floor. Meet Leanne Chase from Career Life Connection, an online community all about finding flexible work.

Gender bias in the workplace…uh, oh I’m guilty, too!

Wednesday, January 6th, 2010

There has been a lot to read on women and work lately.  Apparently we did it! but unfortunately we’re less happy.  And maybe gender bias in the workplace contributes to our unhappiness and maybe gender bias is really all women’s fault. And finally the one that started it all for me – whether the workplace will ever be able to be gender-blind.

As I was pondering these issues I was working on fitting in everything I’d like to accomplish personally and professionally.  And I was bummed about a blog radio show in the HR space that I’d like to listen and participate on.  I was bummed because the broadcast was at 8:30p at night.  So I commented on twitter that I was befuddled why Human Resources radio shows were on at bedtime…many of us in HR are moms and are in the middle of putting kids to bed and can’t participate.

Then it happened.  I got a response from a colleague in HR who is a Dad and of course has a conflict as well with the timing of the show.  It stopped me cold.  Here I was pondering gender bias in the workplace and I had just contributed to it!  He was, of course right…I was of course wrong.

I’ve spent a lot of time thinking about why that happened.  And I honestly still have no idea.  It’s not due to my background…my Mom worked 3-4 nights a week as a nurse growing up while Dad handled dinner and bedtime those nights.   It’s not because I have a neanderthal for a husband…when he’s not traveling for work he loves doing bedtime.  In fact he’ll re-arrange his schedule so I can work as needed on those radio shows.  So I don’t know why it happened.  But I do think it’s telling.  If I am guilty of gender bias…then many other perfectly nice, thinking, evolved people are as well – and probably aren’t consciously aware of it.

Uggghhh!  So what to do?  I’m not sure but I’m not willing to throw my hands in the air and give up.  I’m going to try a few things:

Be more self-aware and thoughtful about it.  Now that I’ve made that mistake once I will do my best not to repeat it.

Stop using the phrases “working mother” or “working women” – it separates women from men in the workplace.  No one ever uses “working father” or “working men.”   Now this one may be hard to overcome.  After all there are magazines, conferences, career coaches and books that make money off “working mother” & “working women.”   The day either we stop using these phrases or we start using the male-oriented ones as well will be the day gender bias at work is on its way out.

Don’t encourage it.  Today I will be unsubscribing from Forbes Woman.  Forbes is a business magazine…so what is Forbes Woman?  I asked them, point blank.  And they explained that Forbes doesn’t cover issues about women and business well so they started Forbes Woman.  Well in my opinion…they should probably cover all aspects of business or rename their original publication Forbes Men…let’s not be hiding our biases with “separate but equal” bullsh**.

Don’t make a big deal out of it.  Yes, I know this article would suggest I think it’s a big deal.  In fact I think it might go away if we all just considered ourselves workers and concentrated on getting our work done while being treated fairly.  I don’t need to make exactly the same amount of money as any other c0-worker makes.  I need to be happy with my salary, the way I’m treated and the work I’m doing.  And if all that is true…what’s the problem?

And here is where I think it all comes together.  If we just focus on what we need and what we want and stop comparing, contrasting, competing…perhaps work-life happiness will come.  I read this great tribute to a grandmother last night.  She worked, she raised a family, she managed a house, she had a very tough life and she was happy.  Isn’t living well the best revenge…so let’s just concentrate on our own happiness and the rest should take care of itself.

Right?